Dear Abby: I need advice on how to discuss a sensitive matter with my son and daughter-in-law’s babysitter. She watches my grandson Monday through Friday while they are at work. They live with me and I work from home, so I am around all day while she’s sitting with the baby.
Overall, she’s pretty good, but we have discovered her asleep in my son and daughter-in-law’s bed a couple of times. She also changes into my son’s clothing occasionally, which makes my daughter-in-law very uncomfortable.