Dear Abby: I’m currently waiting to donate my kidney to my sister who is a year older than I am. My husband and I traveled many hours to get evaluated and tested at her clinic so the insurance would cover the cost.
Before heading back to our home state, we decided to stop by to pay her a surprise visit and, honestly, she did something that’s making me rethink my decision. She was eating pizza and drinking a can of soda. Abby, my sister is on dialysis and supposed to be following a strict diet. It upset my husband, but he didn’t say anything to her because we had just had an argument in the car about my decision to donate to her. It upset me, too, but I didn’t speak up either.