Dear Abby: My wife and I have been married 27 years. We love each other and raised two beautiful children together.
When we started dating, we were both smokers. My wife quit 20 years ago, but I continued. Two years ago, my wife told me no more sex until I do. Abby, I smoke only about 15 cigarettes a day and never in the house or car. I know it’s terrible for my health, and I need to quit, but I enjoy it.