Dear Harlan: I came to college with my high school girlfriend. We both went to the same school so we could stay together. We are no longer together. She dumped me. I no longer want to be here. I feel alone and so betrayed. How can I overcome this feeling? — Betrayed
Dear Betrayed: Let me start off by telling you how much it hurts to break up. It’s awful and incredibly painful. It’s not what you expected. We’ve all been there. You expected this to go one way, but it took a dramatic turn.