Dear Harlan: Is it possible to develop a physical attraction while dating someone? I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple of months. He is everything I could hope for on paper.
He’s in medical school. He doesn’t drink or do drugs. He has a great family. He treats me better than any guy I’ve dated. He talks about the future and how much he likes me. I want to be more physically attracted to him. I’m not ready to give up on this yet. Can something like this change over time? How long should I give it? — Waiting